The Divine Matrix of the Greater Self
I
have been listening to Galexis over the past few years as I channeled
them. They suggest being aware of and using the following information
to craft a great life, to step into your Greater Self. Even if you feel
lost, or don’t know what to do next, you can always ground yourself in
the Divine Matrix of the Greater Self. This will end the sense of
“stuckness” or lack of forward movement. I mentioned some of these
components as possibilities for principles or positive boundaries.
The
Divine Matrix has four foundational principles, much like a rectangular
building has four pillars. and offer the basic spiritual orientation at
any stage of life. They exist as a foundation for everything that you
do. They are aligned with being yourself, i.e. being your truth. Note
that this is about BEING. This is your state of being, your essential
beingness. This is not about doing, actions, achievements, and the
like. This reflects the Divine Feminine energy, a support for you.
Then
there are the three dynamic channels of your Divine Expression. These
three are the actions and purposes that are inherent and natural to you
as a divine being. All humans have these, as they are the qualities of
God expressing through the much smaller energy field of the
individual (you). These demonstrate the Divine Masculine in you.
We’ll start with;
The Four Foundational Pillars
Love This
is basic for everyone, everywhere. And while it may feel that love is
an action, it is actually the most basic substance of Soul, out of
which all has been created. Love is your homing beacon. It is what
everyone wants to feel. When you return Home to the Divine at the end
of your physical journey of lifetimes, you enter the sea of Oneness, of
Divine Union, and it’s all about love.
In your day to day life
however, love is sometimes harder to see, feel, and acknowledge as your
essence. And it’s harder to apply your love to others when you aren’t
experiencing it within you yourself. When you feel love, you feel it
first for yourself. If you don’t know how to bask in the ocean of love
within you, you won’t respect others, value others, or build
self-esteem. Your ego will take over and your relationships will be
filled with tension.
So practice being in love with you. Feel it
for yourself and then radiate it out to those you care about, your
significant other, family and friends, and pets. Radiating love to your
landscape plants, trees, and natural environments can feel as if you
are Home. When you love yourself, you allow the Divine energies to flow
through you, healing all around you. The Divine will hold you, and you
belong in love’s (the Divine’s) arms.
Power/Empowerment This
is a Free Will Universe, and most basic to living here is the ability
to make choices and act on them. However, most of us, and most likely
you, have learned to make choices and act based on what’s necessary
rather than from what you freely want. And in the same vein, to make
choices specifically based on fears about what could happen if you
don’t make them.
However, since Free Will is your birthright,
you have the Power within you, the ability to activate your own truth
and choose to express yourself out of that truth that eternally abides
in you. This requires getting clear on what choices are not true to
you. Those are the ones that come from ego comparisons, fears of the
future, guilt over the past, and attempts to redeem yourself from your
past “sins” of commission or omission by being a “good person.” Yes,
there are things you have to do, such as work, obtain money, food, and
take care of yourself (and possibly others). But outside of that
necessity, there is a place where you can dream and imagine, and feel
the stirring within you of your spirit and soul. You have the ability
to move forward on this, and this ability to make your choices is what
defines you as an empowered being.
Even when you have to make
choices that are unsavory, such as having to kowtow to your abusive
boss, you can consciously choose to work with that character as a very
good actor while you dream and imagine yourself moving into a better
job or circumstance. The key to this working is to do this consciously,
not whining or martyring. No victim self-pity. You are far greater than
that. You are not stuck and powerless, ever. You can always be
conscious! And then you can always choose from your Greater Self’s
position, from your Free Will position.
Empowerment is your best
support within yourself for manifesting what you want. When you are
empowered, you have the ability and the willingness to create the life
you want. You can also co-create it with others. You don’t have to
manipulate, dominate, control, or be aggressive. Empowerment enables
the magic to happen for you. Of course then you must be willing to
receive what you have set in motion!
Freedom Freedom
entails feeling unconstrained with limits from others and from your
environment. Freedom is also your total acceptance of yourself and the
allowance you give yourself to be whatever self you wish. This could be
reinventing your personality, your career, and it can also be
reinventing your whole life to include the freedom and joy of that
freedom being you.
Freedom requires responsibility. To a child
or adolescent, freedom means unbridled energy to do whatever you want
to do without any concerns about others. This approach is immature and
doesn’t work for adults. You can choose to be and do what you want, but
you need to be totally willing to be responsible for the impact of
whatever it is that you do, say, and think on others and your world.
When
you expand your box beyond your current state of limitations, or when
you step into your Greater Self or optimal Future Self, you will
experience a state of freedom. When you let go of your anger and rage,
pain, shame, fear and terror, paranoia, guilt, and worry, you will feel
freedom. It is an outrageously wonderful feeling. Your emotions are at
peace and it’s easy to feel joy and happiness.
Safety/Trust This
is usually the hardest one of the four to feel strong with, sine you
have been trained from the get-go to fear things and worry about them.
Some of you are sensitive, and the turbulence you encountered in your
childhood could have been overwhelming. You might have had to learn
vigilance; i.e. to pay close attention to your environment, then listen
for and watch for danger. All this “data” from your environment comes
through your nervous system to your awareness.
Having this
continual focus on your environment and being displaced from your
center can keep your fight or flight stress up high. Your nervous
system (and over time, your whole body) gets worn down by the cortisol
or adrenaline stimulating your system and keeping you vigilant. If you
have this going on as a child, you’ll grow up feeling that you have to
defend yourself, compete, or somehow struggle to survive in a scary
world.
In adolescence, your peer group can include you or
exclude you. If you aren’t sophisticated enough, you can be easily
embarrassed. More than that, you could be humiliated. But feeling shame
is the very ultimate worst. The fear of being shamed, ridiculed, and
ousted from your peer group/community is huge. By losing your
belonging, a basic need, is one of every person’s greatest fears.
Once
you are an adult, then you have to learn to navigate the adult world of
competition, seeking a mate, building a career, starting a family, and
balancing your checkbook. If you fail at these tasks, you become a
loser, low down on the totem pole, and you can struggle to make ends
meet or find opportunities. So much attention can be paid to survival
that you may not have enough time and energy to devote to your creative
energy so that you can enjoy your freedom, love, and empowerment.
Many
of us live under the threat of the fear of loss. No matter how much
money a lot of rich people have, they fear it could be taken away at a
moment’s notice. So they hang onto it and obsessively and aggressively
push to get more. This may never end and you can have a billionaire
still cheating his employees or making fake deals to grab more money.
In the business world, competition and individuality rule the day.
While most of us somehow tune this all out and live as if someday
everything will work out, we are still held captive by the stress that
continues to wear down our bodies and minds.
Another fear of
loss is that of your family members. Parents fear that their children
will get hurt or die, and the children fear that the parents will not
be there for them. People fear that their significant other will
suddenly get shot or drop dead. For many people, this amplifies the
fight or flight mechanism and they can be continuously stressed and
worried about surviving in a cruel and scary world.
Marketers
take advantage of peoples’ fear of losing out, or fear of loss. There
are so many scams out in the world that kind, gentle souls appear to be
suckers. Since scam artists and thieves abound, you can worry. Is your
money safe? Are you? So the collective/cultural message is that you
have to be sophisticated, be able to identify a scam, and stay tough.
This of course, continues the stress.
The Collective Belief I
emphasize that most people believe it’s a scary world. This is what I
call a Collective Belief, a survival of the fittest, an “eat or be
eaten” kind of reality. It doesn’t help that the local and often
national news broadcasts trot out scary stories of people getting run
over while crossing the street, people getting murdered, accidents and
tragedies, war and mayhem, on and on. The old adage for local news is
“if it bleeds, it leads.”
When I watch local news, the
reporter will interview the grieving family and you’ll see a lot of
people having a candlelight vigil for the victim. Everyone is grieving
and miserable. This image is a strong imprint in your subconscious and
unconscious minds. It’s in the unconscious mind that the collective
beliefs are held, and our humankind worldwide sees reality as scary and
unsafe. Any moment, something terrible could happen.
Even if
you had a pleasant childhood, there is always the collective idea of
fear and danger. After all, you will die, and everyone you know will
die too. And the kicker is that you simply don’t know when it’ll
happen. It’s like you live in a suspense that grows and grows the older
you get and the closer to keeling over you are. So you try to ignore
death and aging (another strong Collective Belief) the best you can.
But the clock is ticking!
The overwhelm of a stressful world
does not feel safe, especially for highly sensitive people. This is
also true for non-religious spiritual people. Fundamentalist religions
do not like people outside their system of thought, and many millions
of people have been persecuted and killed down through the ages for
their spiritual beliefs or philosophies of life – even threatening
theories of science. So it’s scary to feel and be something or someone
different from your peers. This increases the likelihood that you will
feel safe and need to hide yourself the best you can.
It’s best
if you can learn how to get along with people and belong while still
being yourself. Most people choose to stay out of the limelight and
remain in the shadows. If you felt awkward and nervous growing up, you
probably had to learn how to intuit when it was safe to speak or do
anything. Some people had mothers or fathers who were hard to please,
and so they learned how to “read” their parents. This way, they could
manage to stay out of the line of fire, or determine when the parents
were in a good enough mood to ask for something. This is what I call
“dancing around” others, and it tends to put the person doing it into a
victim place.
The dancer is at the mercy of the environment.
It’s hard to feel safe if your environment is dangerous. Compound that
with the environmental toxins and poisons filling the air, and you’ve
got a lot of victimhood – a whole culture can be victimized. This is
not safety. You need your love, power, and freedom. You need to find
your safety and you need to step forward into trust.
Getting to Safety Well,
to get to safety and trust, you have to look at your past and see how
you have survived to the present day. Start seeing it from the
viewpoint of the Greater Self, the one who knows that you are being
supported and taken care of so that you can survive up to now. Have you
had any close calls? Have you survived a dreadful disease? A difficult
accident? A loss of a dear one? Somehow, through it all, you have
emerged to be here now. This, you can remind yourself, is a gift. Your
life is a gift, every day is a gift, and you are the beneficiary.
When
I was little, I was overwhelmed by the loud, strong, active lifestyles
of my mother and my grandmother who we lived with. All day, they ran
the household, talked, gossiped, and fretted about things. It was
incessant. There was no quiet in the house for me, so I hid behind a
big heavy door that was usually kept open. I could squeeze in between
the door and the wall in the dark triangular space. It was the only
spot where I could hide. If they didn’t see me, they wouldn’t insist on
me doing thing after thing. I would sit there quietly and suck my
thumb. Of course, they got wise to this strategy and when they hadn’t
seen me for a while, they’d come and look behind the door and yes,
there I’d be. Where did you hide when you were a kid? Generally, most
kids had a favorite spot to get away to. Was there any place that was
peaceful, safe, and quiet for you? Let yourself remember this place
now, as an adult.
If you can, find a place now in your life
that represents safety for you. If you can’t do it physically, then go
into meditation every day for a short while and imagine a safe place
just right and very beautiful for you. Go there and savor the energy,
feelings, experience of safety. The more you can imagine it, the better
you will feel.
Trust follows Safety Based
on safety is Trust. This is trust that the Divine Plan is in operation
and working for you. You see, your Higher Self and your Divine Team
want you to fulfill your journey into physicality and return to them.
After all, when you chose to become physical and descend into the lower
dimensions, you promised to return. And you are now on that return part
of the journey. This is what the Divine Plan is about. Your guides,
guardian angel, Higher Self, Soul, Spirit, and other Unseen Friends are
with you, working with you and for you.
However, when life is
challenging, you can forget that everything is here for you. Every
detail is precisely created just for you, and every circumstance has
the opportunity for you to learn more about yourself and claim more of
your Divine Nature. If you can remember that “All is going according to
your Divine Plan,” even if it certainly doesn’t look like it at the
moment, you can stay plugged into your Home Path, Dream Future Life
Track, and Ascension. On top of that, if you can remember or remind
yourself that the objective of your Divine Plan is to bring you back
Home to God/Goddess/All That Is, you will know that all will turn out
well. Rest assured that you will not die before your Personal Mission
is complete or you are satisfied with what you have discovered about
yourself.
The Three Channels of Your Divine Expression
There
are three actions or channels of expression that you as a divine being
are motivated to do. It’s natural to you, and it’s natural to the
divine essence of who you truly are. When you live your life being the
Divine One you truly are and expressing yourself through these three
channels, your reality provides you with magic and miracles. You can
manifest at any level you choose. You can have it all – love, money,
health, ecstasy, you name it! It’s natural for you.
Channel One; The “Love-Touch-Heal” Channel This
divine action is about connecting with others, with life, and the sense
of Oneness of all things. We call it the “Love Touch Heal” channel, and
when you focus here, you are loving others, touching and moving others
with your compassion, and healing or uplifting yours and others’
vibrations above low-vibration issues. Expressing through this channel
gives meaning and joy to your life, happiness, and fulfillment. You
lift others and they lift you. You give and you receive. You support
and are supported. Energy flows back and forth between you and your
world and you celebrate life and love. You belong. You are happy and
fulfilled. You experience joy every day!
You see, it is natural
to desire to love, touch, and heal others and you don’t have to work at
it. You do this by your very presence, letting your vibrations hold a
high energy field of resonance, a light resonance. As you radiate your
light, and share your radiance with others, just by being, or if you
wish, by intentional action, you also allow yourself in that
connection/linkage to receive love in whatever form you wish. You allow
yourself to be touched, to be changed, by others. And you open yourself
to be healed by others as well.
Now when we talk about healing
we’re not necessarily suggesting that you are curing physical
maladies. You can have imbalances and difficulties in your love
life, emotions, psychic perceptions, financial life, creativity, and
more. We’re talking about lifting, through love, any kind of resistance
or limitation, any kind of blockage or issue. Resistances “stick you,”
lower your resonance, and restrain your flow. When your flow is blocked
in your body, you will experience tension, pain, or illness.
So
to express your love/touch/heal channel, you start with yourself, to
love yourself . This is not ego-love, that you that compares you with
others or competes with others. Then you allow yourself to heal that
which limits you. Connect with the divine within you, open to the love
from you and from the Divine to you. See that Greater You, the Divine
You, and give him or her your unworthiness, shame, rage and anger,
controlling and manipulating patterns, and anything else that keeps
your heart covered, your spirit crushed, and your soul hidden away in
hurt.
Release Habits You
can also choose to release your old bad habits as you step out of them.
Some of these bad habits are mental habits, such as judging and blaming
others, and “othering” others. Judging can be the worst, because when
you judge others, you are also limiting your life, your capacity, your
power, and your whole reality! This creates separation and stress on
both your part and whoever it is you are judging.
Other bad
mental-emotional habits can include blaming, being righteous (“I’m
always right!”), martyrhood (“I’m angry that others aren’t liking me or
giving to me, while I carry too many of their burdens for them” etc.),
a tendency to avoid responsibility or anything stressful (which keeps
you from being your truer self), Self-Pity and victim consciousness
(being unable to do anything without tip-toeing around others hoping
they won’t attack you), and finally, clinging to the past for fear if
you move ahead, you’ll lose everything positive that you have worked
for (people you love such as family and friends).
Face the Ego Challenge Your
Ego is probably the most difficult barrier in getting to the
Love-Touch-Heal experience. Your ego is your inner mental voice that
soothes you when you are down by telling you how right you are, how
important you are, how okay you are (even when you are not), and
insists that you do whatever it takes to get consistency and certainty
in your life.
You can put together a façade in which you are
always strong, okay, powerful, and right, with no weaknesses and
vulnerabilities. No one is really fooled for long, since this is
“classic ego.” However, the ego is also sneaky and can tell you that
you are the worst, or the most inept, the weakest person around,
undeserving of love and you should just go ahead and die now! So it’s
important in your spiritual journey to identify this ego voice in your
thoughts and don’t get wrapped up in them as if they are true. The ego
is a liar.
When you do this releasing by choice, you find
yourself not only able to love yourself more, but also much more loving
and understanding of others too. Keep radiating your light, with love
and compassion, out into the world. You will find magical connections
with other beautiful beings and your world. You can move healing energy
to others. You don’t have to learn how to be an energy healer to do
this.
Actions to Take Now
in order to activate, experience, and develop the Love/Touch/Heal
channel of your natural divine expression, there are two things you
must learn to do. One, is to stop what keeps love and healing away from
you and also keeps you unable to receive, no matter how much you give.
If you make yourself sick by eating gluten, then you have to stop
eating the gluten and do a detox. In the case with the Love/Touch/Heal
channel, you make yourself miserable by indulging (yes, it’s your
choice) in judgment and shame. So these two dark energies must be
cleared out, detoxed from your lifestyle and everyday actions.
Two,
you must actively seek to learn how to love yourself and others, and
develop your compassionate and generous nature deliberately if it
doesn’t appear to come naturally. It is actually natural to be easy
going, kind, loving, caring, respectful, and sharing, even though in a
chauvinistic world, these are seen as ideal feminine characteristics.
But in the way you define these terms in your daily life, men as well
as women can do them and be strong, powerful, and successful too.
If
you do not know how to work with your darker emotional states to clear
them, then I suggest you find a good spiritual coach to help you
through the darkness into the light. If you find someone who keeps
taking you to the light and avoiding the depth of your emotions, you
have not found the correct person.
You need to feel all those
painful emotions in depth so that they will have been heard. Only then,
will you be able to detach from them and step into your freeing and
light emotions. The extent you are willing to go deep and real with the
toxic dark stuff is the same extent you will be able to experience the
positive light emotions. If you want ecstasy, you have to deal first
with your shame.
And you need to remember to deliberately and
consciously develop your loving ability and to radiate it out into the
world. You can’t inhale unless you exhale and vice versa. It’s the same
here. You need to inhale the love from the Divine and exhale the love
from your heart into your world. You can do this standing on the top of
a mountain in your imagination. Feel it, flow it.
What this
will do is bring more positive and loving people onto your life path,
and it will also protect you from negativity. It’s always a win-win to
Love-Touch-Heal!
Channel Two; Creating and Manifesting, with Passion The
second channel of the divine within you is about creating your life,
your Dreams and Visions. It’s a dynamic, passionate flow of energy
through you that naturally urges you to create something uniquely yours
as an expression of you. Including in this is the fascination with
mystery, imagination, and possibility. It is natural for you to have a
“fire in the belly” about something in your life. You naturally create
your future in your mind using your imagination. There are those things
that you desire, and you choose ways to physically activate your
energy, aiming to put those desires into manifestation.
You
have a desire for a better life, no matter how good you have it. This
is natural. You imagine, create that reality in your mind, you plan
things, and move forward on your Dream Track. This is reality creation,
and being a God Being, you are very good at it.
Even if you
don’t think of yourself as a creative person, you are. Look at the life
you have created so far. Whether you perceive that as good or bad
doesn’t matter. It’s your creation and you did an amazing job of
manifesting it! Yes, if you use either dark or light judgments to
evaluate yourself by what you have created so far, you won’t be able to
create at a higher level. You can only create to the level of the
judgment, and you can only sustain what you have created or manifested
at the level of the judgment. So throw out the judgment and allow
yourself to be free to create, to be free to be you. Remember the
pinions!
The Problem Solving Dilemma There
is nothing harder to do than to create and manifest a great reality
while focusing on problem solving and issue clearances. You can choose
the path either of the problem solver, which requires lots of
diagnostic judgments of the supposed obstacle, or you can be a creator
of your reality, finding ways to live freely in your divine passion and
flow. Of course, there is a little overlap, but since most people have
been trained to be problem solvers, you have to watch to make sure you
aren’t overdoing the focusing on problems.
The way you know if
you’ve overdone it, is that you have loads of little problems all
crowding in and overloading you. Or your stubborn problem will simply
NOT give! And when you feel you don’t have the answers, you can get
very discouraged and see yourself as a smaller being. You didn’t choose
to come into physicality to solve problems but to create a life of joy,
fun, and living consciously as the divine you.
Imagine! Then
flow your passion, your creativity and enjoy yourself, and you’ll know
how to handle your gifts as they emerge. Feel the pleasure and fullness
of what you have learned and done. It is all part of the great
experiment called life, the life that you are creating moment by
moment, thought by thought.
Now sex, a really, really good
sexual experience or orgasm is a dance of creation as well. It’s a
blending of the masculine and the feminine. And even in a gay or
lesbian relationship there will be this masculine and feminine element
that will, like DNA, spiral and loop together. Creative force can be
seen in the Ida and Pingala spirals of the Kundalini weaving together
around the spine. They create the channel for the energy flow of the
Sukhmana, or divine force that flows upward through the center straight
to the Divine. All of your manifestations will come out of
these actions of creativity, pleasure, and fire of passion, whether
physical or spiritual. And here’s in essence, where you crystallize the
form of what it is you wish to manifest. When your resonance is
high, your manifestations will also be high. See your reality as
your playground, put together just for you. Feel the love that the
Divine has for you, and like a small child venturing forth from
mother’s nurturing embrace to explore the environment, claim this world
for you.
Channel Three: The Divine Awareness (Learning) Channel The
third natural expression of who you are is to learn, to grow, to expand
your self awareness and your perspective. Eventually, you will come to
realize your Divinity, to know who you truly are as the divine reality
creator. By your nature, you are That – the Divine in action. Even God,
Goddess, All That Is, at the very greatest and highest level, is still
expressing Itself through the three channels, loving, touching,
healing, creating with passion and ecstasy, and learning, growing and
expanding all the time. You have heard about the Big Bang Theory
for the universe, right? It says that the universe just came out of
nothing in the Big Bang, and that it is still expanding. Well, yes,
that’s just in the nature of it all. It’s the Divine’s nature to
expand, to create new worlds, and to keep expanding and becoming more.
(Note; it may not have been a Big Bang. Imagine a River of Love, Light,
and Sound constantly pouring through a Portal into the Balloon of your
Universe that continues to ge bigger and bigger. That may be more like
what’s really happening!) Now science hasn’t figured out to
connect to the love, touch, heal part yet, as it doesn’t have the
measuring instruments for all of that. But science and scientists are
getting closer, as they have embraced quantum theory, string theory,
and some are becoming great metaphysicians in the process! The
most advanced scientists are talking about multiple universes. They are
beginning to see that physics ultimately must become metaphysics. They
are looking at the science of consciousness. They are getting close to
recognizing that the music of the spheres and the energies of the
universe are actually a harmony of love, of divine song or resonance,
and of beauty that can love, touch and heal. And an amazing reflection
of themselves as creators, and divine beings themselves. Science has
generally left Love/Touch/Heal up to religion, and Creating with
Passion up to artists. But religion is not expanding, as it has become
snared in judgments. The founders of religions, the realized beings,
didn’t encourage their followers to make negative judgments on anyone,
and suggested that people be good and do good. So often, even the best
sects will focus on doing good and not awaken to the Divine within.
That is often because those who find the Divine within themselves no
longer follow the accepted dogma of a religion, and free beings bring
too much chaos to the highly structured hierarchy of religion and the
control of the followers’ resources (tithes). When you discover
who you truly are, you will also discover the greater expanse of the
Universe, jumping beyond the assumptions of science, religion, and
social philosophies. When you are on your road Home, you will
eventually leave this Universe. Until you are there, learning, growing
and expanding is what you like to do. Learn from everything at every
level. It’s all reflecting you and giving you feedback for your
choices.
Discovering Who You Are; the Learning Process This
is the essence of this channel. All the learning you are doing is
discovering that you are Divine in your very nature. If you can
remember that, then the learning won’t be so painful or frustrating.
The
Collective Belief is that learning is a painful and hard process
– no pain, no gain. It is only when you see yourself as not good
enough, inadequate, or when you shame and judge yourself that learning
becomes hard. Or when you insist on trying to control your reality and
make it consistent (safe) for you. This happens when you cannot trust
that you will okay even through times of chaos.
The antidote for
suffering through learning is to understand where you are going. You
are aligning yourself to a glorious, beautiful, fulfilling future, one
in which you are the person you want to be, the Greater Self that is
expressing your Divine Nature through every aspect of your life. This
channel is best served by expanding your Self Image and claiming your
Divinity.
To get a heads up on what to look for and do in
order to grow and expand in the most optimal way, hear the soundfile
teleseminar “The Greater Self Process.” It’s a very concentrated
teleseminar, as it was intended to be seven sessions but is jammed into
one. So it’s a complex outline available for you. Once you listen, you
may see that you don’t have details or techniques to integrate the
various steps. In that case, you let them guide your intention and
direction. In other words, you use your imagination to see what each
step could possibly look like in your life, once integrated and natural
to you. Then choose that. Just choose to be that, go there, and
experience that level you are imagining.
When you are doing
your meditations, check in frequently with your Greater Self’s image
and re-choose it. Sooner or later, you will find yourself moving
forward in alignment to it and your reality offering you the
information you need to get to that level. Your Future will begin to
PULL you forward! This makes learning way more easy.
And another
tip on learning. Read my article “The Test.” It’s all about
understanding how the Universe has your back. Also, it shares how you
can interpret everything that is coming into your life as positive,
even when it initially appears as negative.
Antidotes So
don’t beat yourself up over mistakes, failures, and stupid things
you’ve said or done. Learn how to step into your Greater Self and
forgive that Lesser you that made the mistakes. Take responsibility for
making positive changes and move on. Remember not to take yourself very
seriously, or you’ll give yourself a lot of aggravation, guilt, and
drama over everything you don’t do perfectly. There is no such thing as
failure.
Instead, focus on loving yourself. Lighten up, and
put your attention into your three channels of divine expression. Love,
touch, and heal yourself. Reactivate the passion and step back into
your energy flow. Expand your self image and see yourself as the divine
being you are, having a physical plane experience in a body. And have a
lot of fun. Yes, fun. Divine Play. Enjoy creating. Enjoy dreaming,
envisioning, and imagining. Remember, life is all an experiment in the
illusion of materiality.
And don’t push and drive yourself to
succeed at your spirituality. Heavy discipline will not work for
you, but only make the road more unpleasant. Be gentle with yourself.
You have spent a lot of time (an illusion) fascinated with the
limitations of darkness. Now, you are moving into a New World, a new
playground for you. You may not be used to the light!
On
occasion, pause. Take time off of your practices, of your seeking. What
you seek is You. Go within. Center. Ground. Love yourself. Evaluate
what you have experienced with a lot of love and compassion for
yourself and everyone one else involved. That enables you to learn from
what you’ve done so far. Watch. Be aware. Once you have your
perspective, then initiate another cycle of creating, dreaming, and
imagining. When you do that you’re learning and growing. You are
expanding into the awareness of Who You Are, the Divine One.
Blessings, Ginger
This article written by Ginger Metraux, Ph.D. "The Mystic Professor"
(c) 2017-2018, Ginger Metraux and Giniel, Inc., Encino, CA, USA
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